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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/14/2008 9:00:13 AM   
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I don't know that it's the norm, but from my experience, it seems that the gals in junior high that had the worst breakouts are now pimple free. I tell my niece to be patient w/ it because when she's my age she won't have to put up w/ the big Zilches like I have every month. kd

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/22/2008 7:40:39 PM   
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Last TOM was 8-30.
Late again.

Is it typical to have the "feeling" (crampy, moody etc) you are going to start but don't start?


Still nothing.

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/22/2008 9:34:55 PM   
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I haven't had one since July 29. I'm going in for my pap in mid October so I sure hope it doesn't start then. He'll go ahead and do it if it's a light flow though.



Me either! Woot woot! I had my annual mammo and pap yesterday and Dr said he considers one in menopause if they are period free for 6 months.

The only thing is every time I go somewhere I am worried it will start.
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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/23/2008 2:03:19 PM   
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The only thing is every time I go somewhere I am worried it will start.


Me too.

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/23/2008 5:11:13 PM   
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Me three! I carry supplies with me all the time now. For the last several weeks I've had cramping and some spotting, but nothing more. I keep thinking it's finally starting, and then it stops again.

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/23/2008 5:31:27 PM   
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I keep thinking it's finally starting, and then it stops again.


That is so aggravating! It'd be better for it to just start and get it over with.
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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/23/2008 5:36:49 PM   
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I figure that it will finally start.........on the exact day that I stop carrying the bag of supplies.

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/24/2008 9:10:51 AM   
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I am curious, what kind of testing do most gynecologists do to determine menopause? Or do most do nothing & just wait till the next annual visit & call it as they see it? kd

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/28/2008 11:56:18 PM   
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I don't think there is a test for it--I think they just go by how long it has been since your last period.

Speaking of which--we went to a wedding on Long Island the first of August, and Aunt Flo went along. I left her there, hoping she would get lost and never find her way home.

She found her way home today...

IhateherIhateherIhateherIhateherIhateherIhateherIhateher.

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/29/2008 2:37:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Ps103
IhateherIhateherIhateherIhateherIhateherIhateherIhateher.


awe, Kate, if you hurt her feelings she'll never come back.

Don't you wish it was that easy!!

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/29/2008 12:17:28 PM   
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Don't you wish it was that easy!!


For real!

She wore out her welcome looong ago

Her big thing now is palpitations. I would worry that there was something wrong with my heart, but when she leaves they are not there.

And I am craving liver. Anyone got a good recipe for beef liver and onions?

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/29/2008 3:25:55 PM   
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Liver???!!!!

Poor Kate - it's worse than I thought for you!

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/29/2008 3:56:37 PM   
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Anyone got a good recipe for beef liver and onions?


That is an oxymoron.

But, the only way I have ever fixed it is to bread the liver in flour, fry it till golden brown, then place pieces in baking dish with sliced onion and cover with cream of mushroom soup salt pepper and bake at 350 till you have a nice gravy (about 45 minutes give or take).

I don't eat it , but fix it this way.

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/29/2008 5:13:24 PM   
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Hi all! The last time I was supposed to have a pap, I started that very day, & my doctor told me then that I wouldn't be finished until I'd been a whole year without one. I think it's been a year now, but I'm afraid to schedule another appointment, afraid I'll start .
I love liver & onions my mother used to make it quite a bit when I was a kid because it was supposed to be good for you. Whats funny is they all hated it I learned to like it. In fact we all went out for dinner recently & there was liver & onions on the menu which I ordered they all just looked at me like I was crazy .

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/29/2008 10:07:23 PM   
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Oh, I *crave* liver when Aunt Flo is in town. Must be the iron.

I floured it, browned it and made gravy with the rest of the flour. I soaked it in milk, first--not real sure why, but I thought I had heard somewhere to do that. Used red onions.

I thought it was kinda gristly, but Himself said it was a step up frpm his mother's

I think I'll stick to cooking chicken livers from now on--I know haw to do that, and they always come out good. I'll get beef liver in restaurants.

Nana, I don't remember ever hating it, but my mother never cooked it because it was messy.

Tomorrow I will take old Aunt Flo to the grocery store and buy her some Halloween candy. That oughta shut her up for a while, anyway.

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/29/2008 10:19:36 PM   
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It could be worse. Can you imagine what that poor woman who had Aunt Flo around for 12 YEARS without stopping must have felt! Imagine the relief when she finally was healed after touching the hem of Jesus' robe. I'd gone bonkers by the end of six months of that misery!

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/30/2008 12:28:20 AM   
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I bet she ate a lot of liver

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/31/2008 7:24:51 PM   
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My last period was May 27 and not a thing since. I started keeping a tracker in July 2007 and I have had 5, count 'em 5!! periods, in this whole time. When I went to see my GP and showed him the tracker, he seemed to think it was definitely the beginnings of menopause. I have a referral for a dexascan (I'm 53), and need to get my mammo scheduled. Somehow, I'm not so thrilled about getting my plumbing checked, but I know I need to.

Oh, the joys of being a woman.

Rock on!!
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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 10/31/2008 11:53:41 PM   
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Best liver IMO is lambs liver. Ox (beef) liver and pig liver can be a bit tough and also strong.

Do y'all not cook your liver with bacon like we do (traditionally) in the UK?

Re menopause, my periods are regular every month for the first time in my life (have been now for 2 years) but only lasting 2 days instead of 6 (was down to 4 days last year). I also don't get the bloating now beforehand which is good.

No other noticeable symptoms for now.

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 11/1/2008 1:54:20 PM   
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A few questions for y'all, as I get ready to have surgical menopause soon...

1) Are you on any HRT? If so, what? Side effects? Good/bad experiences?
2) Are you on a calcium supplement? Anyone have osteoporosis (my mom was recently diagnosed and she's only 47!)?
3) Anything else you think I should know?


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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 11/1/2008 3:06:50 PM   
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I'm still in what appears to be eternal perimenopause. I have decided I will not to go on HRT. The negatives outweigh the positives for me. For hot flashes and the chills that can come before or after them, I wear layers. In the summer I slept with a big freezer pack some nights.

I had been taking a calcium supplement, but started to get salivary stones and other issues that I thought might have been related to too much calcium. I take a multivitamin, extra vitamin D and magnesium. I also make sure I get at least 3 dairy servings/day. Another thing I'm doing for my bones is exercise and strength training. Exercise helps with some of the other menopause symptoms too.

The big problem for me is mood swings. They are related to my cycle though. They have just gotten much worse with perimenopause. Not sure if that will affect you. If it does, because you have so much on your plate right now, I'd encourage you to at least look into medication to help even them out. I've come close to seeing about starting on something, but since the moods come and go, I've been able to deal with it by exercising and taking valerian root.

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 11/1/2008 3:42:07 PM   
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3) Anything else you think I should know?


It's pregnancy personified! Hang on for the ride of your life!

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 11/1/2008 5:05:08 PM   
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I have decided I will not to go on HRT. The negatives outweigh the positives for me. For hot flashes and the chills that can come before or after them, I wear layers. In the summer I slept with a big freezer pack some nights.


For you, it's probably best to deal with the symptoms without HRT, from what I've read and been told. My doctor said I will need to be on HRT until I am at an age where I would have gone into menopause naturally. So that makes sense to me that I would need it and most of you wouldn't.

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The big problem for me is mood swings. They are related to my cycle though. They have just gotten much worse with perimenopause. Not sure if that will affect you. If it does, because you have so much on your plate right now, I'd encourage you to at least look into medication to help even them out. I've come close to seeing about starting on something, but since the moods come and go, I've been able to deal with it by exercising and taking valerian root.


I am really, really afraid of this. But I guess we'll deal with things as they come...and I will go to my GYN for meds instead of my primary care doctor, if I can help it.

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It's pregnancy personified! Hang on for the ride of your life!


Menopause is? Or perimenopause? Because I'll be skipping peri, according to my doctor.


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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 11/1/2008 7:58:45 PM   
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If you're skipping peri, maybe you'll skip the mood swings too. I hope so.

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RE: Peri-Menopause and Menopause Support - 11/1/2008 9:27:36 PM   
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I'm sure Brian joins you in that hope.

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